Oh my friend !!

One of my close friends said “dude !! don’t be too good to everyone , It will hurt you someday”. It might be true (it is !!). Does one think in a way that one being close/good etc, means that he is dumb (a strong NO!!). But one will be so not to make issues (quite simple) so complex because it doesn’t even make sense that every time when someone says something different , then the other one should raise words against him/her. I also find one more thing around , it will be fine for one to make fun of other in any way but when that other one makes fun of this “one” they immediately get annoyed. Why do that happen always ??, If the other person is your friend, don’t he/she have a right to make fun of you sometimes as you make fun of them. Is it that only you should make and the other one should stay calm. So, set aside your so called “ego” with your friends because of which a lot of communication gap arises.

Some issues come up when people talk whatever they think. One can talk anything with their close friends as they know about you and can understand you, but w.r.t. others at least, its very important that you think before you talk (not always!!) because you have no right to hurt the person in front of you with your words. The society is not bothered about how you will be, I mean the way you are (one might talk straight [frankly], some others conserved , some others too much freely etc… ) , its so sensible that when you are living in a society one should live accordingly and has no right to speak/do whatever one wants. Some think of it but they view it in a different way , like , when one is talking he/she thinks that they can be in whatever way they like , but when coming to the person in front of them , they expect them to talk/behave according to the surroundings (“them” to be more particular). The same thing applies for others but not for you!! , How funny it is to think so.

One thing that bothers me is “Does one think of a friend as just a means of time pass (if it is so the one will be in serious trouble someday)”. It also happens so that people just think of friends as possession (I mean for the things getting done or something else). Friends are the best means with whom you can hang out and ask them things you need but it is not the only purpose if you think so. Think of a situation everyone around you avoiding you because of your behaviour etc… Its so obvious that you feel bad and get hurt because you feel that “there should be at least one around me who talks to me irrespective of my behaviour!!” and then you will find a true friend who tells you the things. Its again up to you to think about them and realize. It is foolishness to step into the same track again.

Friends are important to choose and one should be careful enough before calling one your friend because some people can be smart enough that they act through out the time with you. Hence one should not be carried away with their outer nature. A good friend stabs you in front saying the mistakes you do. Some people even say “your character can be decided by looking at your friends” (of course I don’t comment on this [:)]).